Resources mentioned:
Kai - Sex Writing, Sex Ed Coaching, Workshops & Resources
Esther Perel - therapist, author, speaker and creator of the podcast Where Should We Begin
“Wondering if you have any thoughts on keeping things sexually interesting/exploratory in a long term (7+ year) monogamous queer relationship? Any fun games or practices to keep exploring new areas of our sexual/erotic selves (together or individually)? ”
“I’m thinking a lot about date night, too, which we’re kind of missing in pandemic and quarantine, dressing up and looking cute. You can have a night where you dress up to go nowhere, dress up just for one another. Me and Jackie recently did that - we dressed up and took a sunset walk and took photos of each other. It was cute and made us feel really close. I think that’s part of it, how do you feel emotionally close so you can build that sexual spark and intimacy?”